However, it will take some serious soul searching on your part as to whether you could ever forgive your W.
Sunday night I went and read every one of my threads start to finish. Knowing what I know now, every comment I made and every comment from the community hear was BANG ON.
1.No emotion from wife about anything / no effection.
2.Wife purchases new undies gets rid of the grannies…Oh Sht
3.New phone texting a lot ( this is when I new there was someone new)
4.Wife indicated she was not willing to go to councelling to work on M She was done / wanted a legal seperation and pushed for it. Beginning of no sleep go a lawyer.
5.No emotion from wife when packing ( she had someone in her corner coaching) she had a reason to escape and get out.
6.Wife said she would live with parents and the girls for short time only. Wanted to be single and raise her kids.
7.Wife takes OM and his kids to Summer cabin for family introductuon. Only four months after removing herself from the home. four f'n months
8.My Kids tell me about weekends with mom OM and his kids. ( this is what really kills the emotional sperit of a person)
9.Me, telling my family wife is in afair, wanted out of r and her strength came from OM.
10.Wife pushing to talk more. Me no talk just text or email regarding childeren. ( gone as dark as possible with kids involved)
11.Second biggest blow OM is a co worker…
12.Me, consumed by this destruction of a family.
I look into my childerens eyes and see the stress of OM. The questions are there I have just not been able to pull them from there little minds.
They say affairs with Co workers is a very popular activity for the lonely. Affairs do not last long.
Wife never got her emotions in check from our issues before entering into the affair. Some where down the line she will have to deal with her inner thinking. If affair fails she will look like stupid from all angles something I know she will not be able to handle alone.
