thanks, and sorry for what happened to you. My W just says somethings can't be healed. She doesnt deserve to have been put through the ringer. I crushed everything she held dear. She says if she was to stay that would mean that my behavior was ok. And that now she would be scared of it happening again. She says everything reminds her of the affair.


me 36
W 33
s-6
s-4
together since 1991
married Dec 2000 9years
first affair before we where married.
Second affair 1/2007
Gone Nov,2007
Back June 2008.
ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010