imLin..it would be really cool if your H could come on this site and post what happened to him..his thoughts thru it all, etc. I have found a few threads from men who have gone thru or are going thru MLC and it's very interesting to hear what they have thought about while in it. I realize that everyone is different, but the similarities between people going thru MLC are such that maybe they could give us LBSers some insight. In a general way.
It is like a mental illness. Depression, MLC, major life transition, manopause..many terms for the same thing. IMO.