Just came to drop S off, had his dad with him, his dad came in, I gave him a warm hug as I always do, and me and H went upstairs to put S into his bed - hed fallen asleep, by the time we got downstairs his dad had already left the house and sitting in the car - shame I think he feels very embarrased about this whole situation - he always been very against divorce, either that or my H has been telling them I've been a pain in the ass for 12 years, and I did this to him frown Time will tell hey?
In the 2 minutes that we were upstairs, H said, 'nice jeans, are they new?' So I said no they are 8 years old! So I think he was a bit embarrassed, and so oh, but you havnt worn them a long time hey? I said yes. He said, well theyre nice, I said thank you- but not as warmly as I intended cause i was tucking S in, so the compliment kinda bounced and I felt bad instantly that I didnt thank him PROPERLY. Oh well....

But its good that he's focussing on me hey? Or am i really scratching around for positives here...after all he did notice and compliment me just after the bomb, so could be nothing, but its a step better than a few months ago where he couldnt look me in the eye...hes definetly looking relaxed.

What stage of the MLC is that? Anyone hazard a educated guess?

M 31, H 34