Just observing the changes

[warriorshadow]

Sounds like MLC talk for trying to keep you from getting "too far away"

I guess my question is what does Cas05 want?
You stated

I said I thought D was inevitable.

I agreed but said that I was talking more about the connection between us.

This is why

I did not expect this conversation and I am not sure what to make of it.

we must keep our expectations at zero.

Sounds like MLC talk?
If it isn't then don't know what else would?
Lance is right on the money with all of this.
They want a "CLEAN SLATE" then the guilt can be erased.
Doesn't work that way does it?
Then if you still want me back, you are nuts but it is your own fault and you can't hold my behavior against me.
Can't we put a big sign on their head that flashes "MLC MLC MLC"
warning Will Robinson!! That is what hits me when they talk like this. I have heard several variations of this from my W.
Her favorite is "Too much has happened" That is code for
I can't get beyond this mess so how can you? and I could not
do what you are doing but I still don't know WTH I want.
So I want to give up because it is too hard and then maybe,after I do some experimentation on my own I will decide to come back.
You will still be there won't you? Can't we stay good friends or best friends etc. Just plain whacked.

So Cas05, Just be very careful. The no expectations are an understatement. Just instantly snapping out of this seems rare.
They take their time, stop, doubt, smell some roses, mosey along, what was I doing again?

Sorry if I seem a little negative, but I have found that optimism with caution is in order at ALL TIMES.