ah...thanks for your patience, Gardener..And how do I find that fine, healthy line between being accepting and understanding, and having no boundaries or needs? I've never been any good at that, and it ALWAYS gets me in trouble. This seems a relatively safe place to discover that line, tho.
You're welcome, my friend. This place is safe...and a Godsend.
Peace,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac