There is so much good stuff here, so much inspirational ah-ha points you have covered in your last couple of posts, that I cannot say anything, but .... WOW!!!! You are one awesome Hmama. So many of us here strain to be at the point you are at, even the oldtimers like me.
Oh, sweetie--you must be joking!! I'm just as confused as anyone else here, perhaps more so. I'm happy if anyone can learn from my ramblings, but I'm not sure how!
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012