So whats the difference between DB and just walking out and saying screw it I'm done and I dont really give a cr#p anymore. Seems like they are the same thing to me.
I am just coming to the realization that i am not really making any changes except finding a new place to live. I like who i am and am very happy ( aside from this ) have a great life and actually gave my W a pretty good lifestyle, put her through school to start a new career and made sure she always knew she was loved.
I am not really sure why the fact that she is unhappy and wants to get out there on the market ( if she hasn't already ) should cause me to change.
Everyone is telling her she is nutz and I havent had anyone advise me to clean my act up. the only advice i have got from her friends, family and our joint friends is to dump her and let her see what the real world is like. They also said screw her if she tries to reconcile and you can do a lot better.
So why should I change other than the normal life changes and experience based changes that we all go through.
