I know that the two of us, together, forgot how to date and be romantic. With each child we had it got worse and worse. I was concentrating on being a good dad more that being a good husband. She was doing the same. When I did ask her out, she was too tired or didn't want to go. I heard that enough and quit asking. It was both of our faults.
Same with you.
Now, if our wives could see how we have changed and how much we have learned.....?
I know I wouldn't make the same mistakes again.
No one want their old M back. We have a chance to have a new and improved M. If only they would take the chance.