Relocated the family and he dropped the bomb

[MM78]

Dinner was rough - but not because of us, just because the 3 year old was being... three. She actually hit me at the table. Her behavior was just too much so I just sat there and tried to focus on my food. The situation with the H seems to have zapped all my patience for everything, including the kids.

I'm dreading the end of this week when the Board exams are over and I think he might bring up me and the kids going back 'home' for a few weeks so he can 'take a break' and think about things. I just drove the 9 hour trip (each way) with them and our dog 2 weeks ago. Given that the little one vomits every time I drive that long, I'm not really up to doing it again so soon.

Or worse he will say that he (alone) wants to go up and see friends, including the OW like he mentioned before.

How do I handle that one?