I am sorry that his true colors showed through yet again. Try to focus on you and your son. Did you ever speak to a L? If not, I would do so and let your H know that everything legal needs to go through the L.
Might be time to pack him a bag.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory