HK have you made any effort to apologize to your Husband's xwife?
Do you realize that she went through WORSE than what you are going through now with OW?
You haven't been abandoned by your husband yet... In my opinion you need to treat his xwife like GOLD and LIVE with it...
You really need to understand the statistics here and the changes you both need to make.. its HUGE
Your marriage was never strong before, it was a smokescreen with a grenade in the middle waiting to blow...
COuple that run of togehter crash and burn almost EVERY TIME... like you two now have...
Can you save this? Maybe... but its giong to take a LOT of maturity on your part and your H's... and your histories don't indicate you have that built up yet...
Your H has strayed TWICE now... on women WHO BORE HIS CHILDREN... Do you really think this man has the maturity it takes to make a marriage work right now?
He may be able to build it up evetntually, but he is no where near it now...
And this opens the question how many other times has he cheated you haven't found out about yet?
You get what you pay for my dear... I would like to help you, but you really need to understand what you are dealing with and I don't think you do yet...
