I just don't know who should leave. Either if us is capable of handling the mortgage. If I leave, I have better chances to stay in contact. If she leaves, she will lose all the surroundings she is used to. I have already stated that the pets and the house stay together with one of us.
I have a month to decide what the plan exactly is. A lot can happen between now and then. My head is spinning out of control right now.
