My UFO (unbelievably fabulous observations)

[hoosiermama]

ah...thanks for your patience, Gardener.

I realize I obsess about all this stuff. I want to put all the pain behind me, to move forward (whatever that looks like!), to heal, to find peace. NOW!

And how do I find that fine, healthy line between being accepting and understanding, and having no boundaries or needs? I've never been any good at that, and it ALWAYS gets me in trouble. This seems a relatively safe place to discover that line, tho.