I don't know. Yes it's dramatic. But after our first kid it wasn't like we forgot the romance, it was unwanted by her. I tried, and never could get the time of day from her. Then when she tried, I was a spoiled child and turned my back on her.
Last night she said that she didn't really know me anymore. And it's true; we know things about each other, but that intimacy is gone. And the things we "know" we really don't; they're just strong impressions from our past.
Any future R past just coparenting will really mean starting over from scratch, dating, and finding out if we really still like each other. Ignoring as much of our past and history, and seeing if there's any real attraction between us.
