It's not hard to read because it's true and you probably can't say anything worse to me than I've already said to myself "this is karma" "what did you expect" even " you deserve this" It was VERY wrong and I don't pretend for a second it wasn't but theres only so much you can put in a post ( this was already nearly a novel)

I'm in individual therapy and have been for about 5 months. It's really, really helped me tremendously! My husband just reached out for individual therapy but hasn't gone yet.

My hope for the end result is that we get through this stronger than before. I know what we did was wrong and probably now more than ever, but if people can't change , why are any of us here?

Me:38 H: 45
OW:34
S:4 Bonus S: 12 and 16
2nd M for both
Together 12 yrs M: 6
EA suspected: 5/10 confirmed: 7/2/10
Separated: 8/12/10