iwitw,
Yes, I was co-dependent in the sense that I put X's wants, needs, and comfort above and before my very own.

But, no, I don't need someone. And right now, I don't want someone, R-wise. I am comfortable being alone, single and continuing to slowly heal, rebuild, and learn.

Thanks for your sharing and suggestions. You sound like you are getting to a real good place.

Peace,

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac