Making progress and reconnecting.....ayieee

[CPCajun]

:Update:

W and I went to my C and now are considered MC together. We didnt get too much out, as my C was unaware that W was to start atending.(Which I left the front desk several messages to alert C of).
I knew she had the issues of me being physically and verbally abusive person. I did say the physical abuse stopped along time ago, and I have been working hard on the verbal abuse. So far I have not backslided.
What I didn't know is that she was tired of me starting projects and not finishing them. So I have made a mental note to not start anything I cannot finish, and anything I have started, finish it(if I can).
MC has noticed that W still focus' on me A LOT. Even though we are working together,set boundaries,and made amense on things, it still seems that W still is holding things back. MC ask that we each do some homework and find faults in ourselves and explain them on our next appointment.
W was also surprise that I told everything to MC. I said yes, I want to work on our M and C needed to know everything to help me and how to work on our M.

Well see how the next MC session goes.


W now ask me to move fully back in on Wednesday. It is nice but wierd being back in the house now. I need to gather all my things and start bringing them back in. My first thing is to neatly organize my belongings not just throw things everywere as I have done before. Also, clean the outdoor kitchen spotless.

Also, W has been persuing me constantly. If I step out for a bit(say the porch or back to the barn), within minutes, she is asking me what I am doing and wants to tag along.

The bad....
We did go thru phone records. I saw that OM had texted her a few days back. W did not tell me and had also deleted the text(as I check the phone from time to time. I told her that she cross the line and that the hiding of this, hurt. I ask why didnt you respect my boundary of not having OM in the picture? She responded that she told him to leave her alone again and that she wanted nothing to do with OM. She hid the fact that if I knew, I would get angry and would fight her. I told her, that yes I would, but not nearly as much as I am now that you were not open with me. That deleting the text makes it look even worse on you because I never saw them and really do not know what you wrote.
She knew she had done wrong and was very upset that I was upset. She said I(W) would type another text up to him and send it to OM with you seeing it. I really was unsure if I wanted to,as this contacts OM again, but she(W) whipped out the phone and it was done. "Please ...out of respect for me,my marriage,and my family. DO NOT ever contact me again."

I know Puppy, change the number.:doh:

She even went out of he rway to make something special for supper later. I had been craving chilli cheese hot dogs. So she went to the store, bought the items..and some beer.

Think she sucking up a bit .....