It doesn't make it any easier. My wife said last she still loves me. I never got the ILYBINILWY line but I got similar "it's not you its me" crap.

So my wife and I still love each other and still getting a D because she can't decide if she wants to be M or not. I think it would be easier if she didn't love me.

Me 44, W 39, S 6, D 6, M 21
Bomb June 18, 2010
I filed D July 20, 2010
W filed counter suit Aug 2
Rings came off Aug 5, 2010