Seeking..I am worried about my H having a problem with me seeing the MC alone, too. I don't want to do anything stupid to jeopardize the sessions because I want to be able to continue to go to this guy. My H and I were seeing another guy and he and I went separately and also together (twice) and it didn't work out to continue to see him..one of the reasons being that my H felt he was biased in my favor because of the things I told him in our private sessions. I guess I'll ask the new MC if he was wanting to see us separately at all and that my H would not be able to make the appt on the 25 and if he did want to see us separately, that would be a good one for me to attend. Keep it all up front and honest.
I agree with you that it would be too early for the new MC to decide on the frequency of meeting times based on one session..especially since the MC did most of the talking at that 2 hour session and we never really got into much of the reason why we were there..nothing was mentioned about the A at that time, even tho I did refer to "a year ago" and "since last Nov" when I answered his questions. The MC said at the end, that he intentionally didn't ask what happened a year ago or in Nov. and that we would talk about that if we decided to return. I'm pretty sure he has a good idea of what happened, just based on the answers we gave, even tho it wasn't specifically stated that my H had had an A.
I'd actually like to see the guy twice a week..I'm kinda kidding and then again..kinda not. He's pretty smart and really gives you lots to think about. As a matter of fact, I'd like to tape the sessions or at least take notes cuz I can't remember all the stuff he says later..and I want to!
