2 weeks ago my son got married and H was not invited because of H living with OW. The day before the wedding h sends me a text message asking why no one in his family was invited to wedding to which I replied not my decision. (We have been married 30years and he left last Aug)After the text message we talked by phone and h tells me to went to Folrida with her and explained everything to his parents, why they are wearing rings on their wedding ring fingers, etc. OW is still married to 2nd h and has been separated over 3 years. So I guess he did all this to try and make ME feel guilty about him missing the wedding and of course it did make me feel horrible so I believe that was his intent. In the past few months he sends spodraic texts saying how happy is and that he is never coming back to which I either dont respond or just tell him I am sorry he feels that way. I guess I want to know what to make of this. He comes from a very disfunctional family and although I thought I meant something to MIL/FIL the fact that they allowed her to visit makes me very disappointed. Please help me make sense of all this.
