(((Soleil)))

I can understand how you're feeling. This whole thing just sucks no matter how you slice it. I get that but don't make any rash decisions. Just go have a discussion with the L, think about it, post it here and then make an informed decision. Yes it may sound like a pain in the back and it is but it's the right way to do it.

You should also make an appt with your doc and see if they can give you an AD. If nothing else you can try SAM-E or St. John Worth supplement. They're both over the counter ADs- not as effective but have helped people here. Sunlight's good too so take an afternoon walk after lunch if you can. Get yourself involved in some activities that you like to do. Take a class etc. These are much better options than trying to jump in the dating scene so soon.

You'll be fine- just remember this is a process and to get to the end of this process you must go through these phases you're going through.


Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again