Gardener, I'm so sorry to hear about your brother but I'm glad he's OK and I hope he makes a speedy recovery.

Sometimes things like this happen and we realize how vulnerable we all our in this world. How little time/chance(?) we have to either fill our lives (and those around us) with happiness or waste such precious time fighting over BS.

Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6
Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks
Aug 2006, left again
Apr 2007, filed for divorce
Dec 2007, reunited
Mar 2010, moved out, filed again