My problem is i don't feel i am DBing now that we are separating. I have just given up hope that anything is going to get fixed and just setting myself up to get on with my life.
When dealing with her I don't really care what she thinks about anything and only consider the impact on me and my S.
Right now i am just being cool and clinical while winding down the financials as i want to keep emotion out of this but be completely transparent so it is not a bone of contention in the future.
I always thought that if she forced us out of our home and disrupted the kids lives then that was it for me. That day seems to be on its way.
Not sure how I could ever regain the trust after this.
like you I hope that we married people of character but after reading some of the stuff on this board and living thru my own sitch sometimes I wonder.
Strange thing is I still love her but am beginning to wonder if that is a flaw in my own brain. How do we have feelings for someone who put us and the ones we love most (Kids ) through this.
Why not drop the ones with the bad past record, improve what we need to with ourselves and just move on.
