Hi Punkin - I think I'll take your advice on that one, I feel like I've run out of energy, all of this THINKING.....its driving me nuts, and I'm so tired of trying to put two and two together, and try predict stuff/ understand stuff
He's gone a a bit distant again - not cold, just distant...blase and sort of like - 'I can't really be bothered to make conversation but if you talk I'll respond with one word answers if you like' kind of thing...argh.
So not sure its becuase his family is down (he is reconnecting with them - apparently I'm the reason he lost contact, even tho he spoke so nastily of them for years)
Came to fetch S, my BFF was here visiting, he sat in the chair for 10 mins, spoke a little, and then left with S to meet his parents. Not trying to be friendly like he was a little while ago
So he has them as his comfort right now, so I'm not needed atm.
There I go ANALYSING AGAIN!! Someone hit me over the head with a mallet.