REALLY need some help today, Please!

[Hope4us]

Sunny, Allen is giving you some good advise. It was my youngest son (16 yo at the time) that finally ended the A for good.

He was brutal with her, but it woke her up. Just the other day she again said to me that she was angry I told our kids what was going on and I said to her "Does the end justify the means? If he hadn't woke you up, we'd be D'd right now, so isn't it better that we're still together as a family instead of divorced with your pride in tact?" And she just looked at me and lowered her head and shook it yes.

Thing is, I didn't tell the kids to hurt her like she thinks. I told them so they would know the truth and KNOW that there was at least one parent that would never lie to them...that there was one parent that they could count on to never let them down no matter what. And here we are two years later and our boys have TWO parents that will never let them down.