After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

OK so we can hold of on SENDING the letter, but WORK on it until it is what I need it to be.

Meanwhile, she got all her packing done so she won't be back into the house until moving day on Sunday. And I sure as Hell WONT be here for that.

She MAY be softening, but it PROBABLY is SWEET TALKING and CAJOLING me into consenting to selling the house.

She probably is trying to play to my soft side and use my feelings for her as a weapon against me.

She's a sneaky little one and I think she still has a few tricks up her sleeve yet. But maybe she HAS seen that I have and am growing, and that her and her mom can't send me over the edge ANYMORE.

Your wife turned this into a battle of wills not you.

The funny thing is that she KEPT SAYING:

"I will work with you in whatever way possible to make this smooth and get it OVER. I will work with you and we can work TOGETHER to get our lives separate".

She must have said "work with you" about ten times. All in reference to speeding the divorce and selling of the house along.

OH, and she also kept saying this:

"I gave you CHOICES ALL ALONG THE WAY. I ALWAYS let you know AHEAD of time what I would be doing. I gave you CHOICES to make with the house, with living together, and with the finaces. Filing for divorce, moving out, canceling the utilities, and packing. I ALWAYS gave you a CHOICE, and your actions in choosing speak very loudly".