Originally Posted By: FindingMyVoice
the importance of being able to forgive, before you begin piecing.


Key, very very key.

That said, you're off to a good start then. There will be backslides now and then, much like the little episode I've been having lately shutting that little voice up in head. Unfortunately I got a loose tonge over the weekend and that inner voice became an outter voice. But, now that we have that understanding of each other, she understands, yes, some comments were uncalled for, but have been on the back of my mind. Point is, it's like every other step along the way in this whole thing, you get better in time and the frequency will get less and less.

I also believe I mentioned the same thing "12" hit on with the book, not only do you want to eliminate words like "always" and "never" from your thought pattern, you to eliminate it from your vocabulary with your H. Especially during the time when your trying to get your point across about something with him.


Me 35/XW 33
S13 & S12
M: 10/17/98
OM & S: 07/08
D final 06/09/09
12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing"
06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10
06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11