My Rollercoaster Continues

[Albuquerque]

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I know how you feel in regards to telling family. My M had been the "rock" of the family. My sister had several divorces, my brother floated through gf, even both our parents had obviously rocky patches. And while we had rocky patches at times, we held it together and were always very affectionate. So it was a big pill to swallow to know I'd have to break the news to my family, especially given how shocked I'd know they'd be and especially given the answers I'd know they'd want. But I encourage you to do so. It wasn't easy and I kind of wimped out by doing it via email. But I handled it like we are taught to handle out H. Short, sweet, to the point. I said, H moved out, I am not happy about sitch, but I won't be dicussing issues. I appreciate your support. It of course prompted phone calls right away but at least the cat was out of the bag. I got questions as to why, how, etc. But I kept on point. It's H decision. I still love H but I will go on. Up to him etc. I'm glad I did so because it helps to have family supporting you even though like you, they are far from me. And with your preganancy, you really DO need some extra support. I wish you the best with everything.