i've been reading your posts.. i've been in that other shoe. And i think its such a good step that you are truly willing to work on the marriage. I cant say or give much advice as i am new too this DB. Defintle ready DR and DB, they have helped me so much..not in terms of the marriage but for myself.
Me: 28 H:30 M:19/03/09 Renewed vows in home country: 19/03/10 Together: 7 1/2 years Married : 2yr 3 months S:26/06/10 reconciliation started: 1/10/10 Separation 2: 4/5/2011