I have to be really careful right now because I know I am my own worst enemy. I need to NOT assume any negative things. Some people are telling me that If I had exposed the A three years ago I would have saved me this entire wait. She may have come back to me sooner but then again I figure that if I had exposed it then it may have been over sooner with her leaving me. NOT to mention that since it seems like we are working things out… I do not have to explain anything to family or friends why I took her back. I figure it took 19 years of marriage to screw things up… it took three years to get back on track.. And hopefully will only take one year to rebuild
I have been away on holiday for the last few weeks Doc so I didn't see this until now. I just wanted to say that whatever advice folks give you about how to deal with your sitch, YOU are the one walking in your shoes...........and personally I think you have grown so much as a person taking the route you have. I think you should be proud of your achievements and ignore what others say you should have done. It is what it is.....and at the moment it is pretty good, no?
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
