sooo today is the day son and I jet off on our holidays, woopee cannot wait. no contact to either of us from the ex, the ex did send son a birthday card some two weeks ago, it is sons birthday tomorow, so either ex forgot the date or just wanted his card to arrive early and therefore that was his way of saying he wouldnt be seeing son before his birthday as he sent it by post he signed it from himself and wifey, day after a card from wifey on her own arrived, day after that a card from wifey's parents arrived. oh well there were three cards that son put in the bin on arrival, lol. see you all soon folks have fun cos I am sure we will, I can feel the sunshine now xxxxxxx