Hold the letter for a bit yet... Arrange to have some friends over tomorrow for a small get together.
You want her to think you are over her? Then throw a party in the honour of her absence.
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I am thinking about this letter...
What is the objective?
a. To show her you aren't clinging or holding onto the marriage b. To get her to admit to you that you are over her
If your objective is A, I think you have done most everything you can do. If your objective is B I think your wife is way too proud to admit that to you.
I think your wife knows you arne't clinging anymore. I honeslty do. QS, with all due respect to the memory of your wife I think right now she's got borderline narcissism problems galore.
I think right now she thinks she's all that and a side order. I don't think your wife right now in her mental state would admit to you that ANY man doesn't think she is the cats ass.
I think she knows you aren't looney tunes. I think she knows she screwed up. I think she's a bit ashamed of herself.
I don't think she will admit that to you... Most waywards and particularly cheating waywards have a real problem with accountability... It's pretty textbook around here.
I think it was Saffie who said that it took her husband whom she reconciled with a YEAR AFTER the affair was ENDED to even say I love you.
Seriously... Your wife isn't going to admit she messed up, or that she's got doubts bigtime right now. I think she's way too narcissistic to admit anything.
So, what's the point of the letter? For her to know you aren't crazy and pining after her? To get her to admit that fact? I think the letter is pretty damn concise to your position, but I am just wondering what we are trying to achieve here...
I am also considering any possible way this can backfire and your wife can twist this into something to throw at you...
Hold the letter for now until we scruitinize this a bit more...
