hm,
Originally Posted By: hoosiermama
What stands out most--the person who left me is closer to the real person than the one I fell in love wit.
Yeah. That Susan j. Elliott quote:
"But above all else: forget this person you fell in love with. They are never coming back. The person who left you is more in line with who this person really is than the person you fell in love with," is a real smack upside the head, isn't it?

Peace,

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac