well looks like i'll be moving out. she says if i dont then she will file. she says she is at peace with filing. doenst want to work on anything. says 3years is enough and what happened should not have ever happened if i had loved her. i just didnt know that hidding your feelings and never talking about was considered work. I asked her about going to the Retrouville weekend and she said she didnt want to be brainwashed into thinking everything is ok....dont know what to do....


me 36
W 33
s-6
s-4
together since 1991
married Dec 2000 9years
first affair before we where married.
Second affair 1/2007
Gone Nov,2007
Back June 2008.
ILYBNILY---i cannot believe you did this 7/22/2010