No worries. I think it's largely perception. My W claims to have attempted to initiate sex multiple times, yet I don't recall ever denying her except on the occasion where it was 4am and I'm pissed that I had to put the kids in bed alone. She may be justifying her A by saying I didn't want sex. But I know now that at times I wasn't the warmest person. I think I read on this board "you believe half of what an MLC'r does and none of what they say."
M / W: 43 D8 S6 M 10 years / T 13 years W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09 Separated in same house 10.6.09 W moved out 2.27.10