When BD/180 Isn't Working

[Chuck66]

S1S,
I can't go fully dark either living with my spouse and having twin 6 year olds. I am learning leave before anyone else and to be going out the door (with kids) when a certain someone enters the door. It may be harder to do living with someone, but easier for them to see daily DB.

If you were separated doing their won thing it might take them a while to notice any changes. I just drafted a plan for my W to expedite out D. Exactly not what I want, but in for a penny in for a pound...I'm trying to set them free on the fastest track possible. Not easy.