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Oh boy. Things are heating up w/New Guy and I have mixed feelings about that.

I can say this: I didn't expect to be dating in my 40s. I also didn't expect to get this much attention dating in my 40s--I'm spinning.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
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Dating or not, I know you deserve true happiness in your life and that is what I wish for you. Life sure brings us very unexpected things.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
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I am hoping to rearrange schedule w/ex so that I can go out w/New Guy.

I am pretty sure that ex is in the new locale to say a long and tearful drama-filled goodbye to OW--normally he would have answered my email by now. This from the person who never wanted to go anywhere or do anything. Oh well, things might get interesting now.

I think OW, despite leaving, will always be the glorious perfect person that ex was "born too late" for. Suspect he is still too immature and lost in fantasy dream world to see her as the user she proved to be.


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Divorced 11/09
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Forward Honey, in all honesty, who cares where he is or what he thinks. Let him do whatever and focus on what you are going to do!!!

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Yeah, BH, the whole situation gave me a jolt is all I can say.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
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Divorced 11/09
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Well, give him a "jolt" by not giving him the time of day! LOL

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My former FIL cheated on his W, and left her for a widow with money. That's the nicest way to put it. When she married 8 months later, he cried and whined for months. I didn't really want her to go. How could she do this to me? I loved her?

Get ready, set, and go!

More power to you.

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I was wrong--OW is still around here, ugh.

Will be happy when she is finally gone and D is not around her any more.


M: 16 years
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And...schedule rearranged for New Guy. Grin.


M: 16 years
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Forward, you might as well get used to having OW around your daughter, regardless if its this one or someone else, its going to be there, the next one could be worse, but believe me, he will find someone if this OW takes off.

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