Only you can say when. If that is how you truly feel, then go with it, but if there is any doubt in your heart, give yourself 48 hours before acting. I know that when I screw up good, it's because I acted out because I was thinking with my feet, not my head.
Yep, as the saying goes,life sucks and then you die. But they also say Life is what you make it. Don't let his decisions have control over your life. If he's made it so clear he doesn't want to be a part of that life, then . . . . .
