2g, This board is an excellent release, but you are human, and IMHO, because of those hormones, you need human contact. If you have to travel, so be it. Do you have a friend that will come to you? A family member you trust above all others?
None of my Business, but when you have this baby, you will need someone to be there for you emotionally and physically, and I know they won't let a laptop in the labor and delivery room.
Are you religious? A pastor could connect you with a support group in your area, so you could essentially remain anonymous.
We LBS's on the Board will always be here for you, but you need an actual human contact/friend/confidant. And so what if you cry, we all cry, including most of the men on this board, although only 50% will admit it. Pregnancy is tough enough without going through it alone.
Personally, I think your H is blowing smoke up your skirt. Can you imagine how he would look taking a pregnant woman, a HUGELY pregnant woman to court? What an a@@hat.