Originally Posted By: LanceSijan
Ok but will he be using any of YOUR marital assets to buy this new place?

This is exactly what I was getting at when I said, on thread page 2,

Originally Posted By: Twink
until you are D'ed, you have some potential rights to anything and everything that your H does with your marital assets.

It sounds as if he wants to use marital assets for the down payment, and will be using them for the monthly payments. With the signed waiver, that's the same as taking a chunk of marital assets for his own use without giving you an equal amount. At the very least, you should document what those amounts are now and going forward so that you can factor them into a future separation of finances, if any.

Last edited by Twink; 08/08/10 11:23 PM.

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