Any thoughts?

[Chuck66]

Hardest lesson to learn here is to "let them go" because most folks first fell like that is giving up. You can't change someone else. You can't make someone love you. You can't make someone decide to be in the marriage.

Do you really want to be with someone who is not committed to you (can't decide)? No matter how much you love them, that is a lost cause. Your only hope is to set them free and maybe then you will have a chance.