I hate to say this punkin but trying to decipher anything about the way they feel while they are in replay is really a waste of time. He might be caving in to pressure from the OW, who knows.

Trying to listen to anything they are feeling until after they break withdrawal is not really a good use of time.
You will see one thing at one time and something else five mins. later.

Explain to me why YOU must sign off on this mortgage?
I am confused why your name must be on it.
It seems like for you that might be a bad idea, but maybe I don't understand.