Started a new thread, since the title of my old one is no longer true, we aren't separated but living together, we are separated, living 2 hours apart.
My almost 8 year old finally said a little something regarding her feelings today, but it was brushed off as "we'll talk later" b/c it was just as WAH was leaving to go back home. He always thought I made things up when I tell him the things the girls say, but this time she said while he was here "it's not fair we only get to spend a day and a half with daddy"
I know he will brush it off as "when daddy gets his own place you can spend more time with me" He's currently living with his slob sister, and her "habits" aren't exactly ones I'd like the kids around, so they're not allowed to sleep over there. He spends every wknd up here, visiting them, from fri nite-sun nite.
Next Friday is my birthday, he's working the ENTIRE weekend, covering 3 extra shifts at work, talk about avoidance. So the kids won't see him till the 20th, then he's meeting his lawyer the 30th to file.
I feel dumb, since the bomb, I've made a bit of a special occasion for both of his b-days. I do it b/c I care, but it's obvious I need to stop b/c I come across as a push-over.
M:28 H:30 DD-9| DD-7| Baby- Due 11/10 T-14 | M-8
10/08- Bomb 4/09- Failed attempt at Marriage Fitness Program 3/10- WH moved out. 7/10- Informed me he's filing in Aug
