NC is good for you...I do think it is harder when you have a choice...I had no choice...H went dark...wouldn't reply to kids, me, phone or email! I was forced to deal with it and work on myself...I knew I was getting better when I realized I could take care of myself and didn't NEED H for that anymore...wanted him in my life but didn't NEED him in it...that was my light-bulb moment
Your doing good...moving forward, healing and working on you...being there for your kids...keep the momentum!
