Yeah - she and S16 are not frustrated with me at all, but they definitely are with their dad! I have told them righteous indignation is nothing to shy away from.

Right now things are still calm: H went to church with us this morning and out to lunch. We went to the movies last night as a family... Yet, he's there but not there at the same time. He is still distant even though he's in attendance. It's not as bad as it once was though. At least it isn't "arms folded/scowling mode" when he's around now. Hope4Us could be right in that maybe he's in WD from the EA and other escapes... And btw: no more carrying the cell into the bathroom while he showers either.