I am glad you got what you needed to today, Gman! It's funny how sometimes the universe just gives us what we need when we need it most. Or maybe that isn't a coincidence.
I was just talking to a friend of mine who is going through a rather unpleasant divorce. And I asked him something that I have been wondering for a LONG time. I read DB each day and I am amazed at the absolute POWER these walk away wives have over their H's. If you look at the facts *most* of these women have treated their H's horribly in more ways than one, had or are having affairs, are emotional messes with little desire to lead an emotionally healthy life and quite frankly are ordinary (at best) yet they have this ASTOUNDING hold over men. I don't get it! Honestly, I would like to know how they do it and still have their H's falling at their feet! While it's sick it is also fascinating and sometimes I wonder why I can't do that, lol!
So basically a woman is going to you (generally speaking, not you per say) is going to treat you like dirt, ignore your emotional and sexual needs, tear apart a family, rake you financially and do whatever the hell she pleases to do and still gets treated like they are the best thing on the planet.
I have wondered this for a long time. It's all rather fascinating! MEN - give us some tips as to what *we* (we - laides of DB) are missing so WE have those kind of powers! We will use them for good, not evil
