Sometimes I feel she is paying attention that I am changing and other times she just doesn't seem to care. She hasn't talked in terms of divorce lately. But today she suggested that we were not going to be back together. Its hard to stay positive when I'm not getting any clear positive signals from her. There are some encouraging signs here and there. Still, she does not want me doing things for her as she said, "I don't want to have to owe you." Nevermind that she doesn't owe me anything, but I'm still trying to respect her viewpoint. I'm still just not sure the "baby steps" are genuine or if I'm seeing something that's not there. At the very least this forum gives me an outlet to get a third party opinion from someone not close to the situation. I really want her to wear her wedding ring again - that would be a huge step for us.
