Ah, the altuniverse. You can find me there too.

CD, as time passes, as you've begun to notice, those pings become less and less pervasive and shorter in duration.

Just be wary - I'm not sure if it happens to others, but there are certain things that trigger it. For example, at the end of July I was having a really rough week. I couldn't understand why the sitch was invading my mind more than it had been for months. Then I realized it was 2 years ago that I had moved out of my house for 2 weeks and it was very rough on me. I find these kinds of 'anniversaries' play on me even if it's on a subconscious level.


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