I have been following your thread when I have time. Regarding your question above, 18 months ago when XH and I were working out the details of our D decree he told me that he was in love with his XW. (They were D'ed 13 years earlier ----- XH D'ed her because she had severe anorexia and OCD. She had been in treatment off and on for 5 years.) That hurt like heck too. His 1st wife is remarried and as far as I know he hasn't renewed their relationship since the bomb 23 months ago.
Fast forward to June of this year (21 months post-bomb). XH began reconnecting with me. Don't know where that will lead, but this is one more example of "Believe nothing of what they say and only 50% of what they do".
